BRILLIANCE IS...

I understand how crappy limbo can feel. Feeling directionless and not really knowing what you wish to be makes you feel lost and can make you panic. In my 20’s I made decisions based on panic driven by fear…my mind raced with the fear of  “how will I survive?!” So rather than thinking and wishing well for myself I solely concentrated on needing cash and chasing money. I got into a sales career…to the detriment of my own happiness.

I had no joy. I did not believe in myself or that I could do better, for me.

Now – thankfully – I allow my happiness to be uppermost in the choices that I make. Taking an equal rank in consideration to the ‘should’s and ‘musts’ of life. Which ensures I create a life that despite the odd wobble, makes me smile and super glad to be me.

The root of Good-VibeNation began with me stepping back to look at how I had not been my own best friend in the past. How I had not truly been myself…or known myself as a young person. I examined my bland life and saw how I had betrayed my own individuality with the need to have a social veneer, like a mask. I felt so insecure in my own skin that I had become a like a sheep as to what to do, think, wear, listen to and generally be interested in. I compared myself to and followed what others did, just to blend in and feel accepted – I guess we all do this to some degree since wanting to fit in is deeply entrenched as a survival mechanism in our human psyche – It is just sad if you, like me end up not dancing to beat of your own heart and instead just follow expectation…or others.

My wish for my own future family is to install the belief in them that they are good enough no matter what they choose to be & that joy is the wisest compass to follow.

I have set up Good-VibeNation basically to inspire others to take the time to find out what it looks like in each ingredient of life to truly be yourself. What is it that will make you shine brilliantly with true satisfaction and happiness.  The RECIPE is designed to help you to gain clarity on this, then map out method of how to not only know your own wishes, but also how to turn these into a reality.